Joined: Apr 2010
From: Aromas, CA
I Ride: 2018 H2 SX SE, 2005 Z750S, ZX7R Superbikes
Sorry to be so basic, but are you checking with the engine running? The relays will not switch until the engine is running.
Did you check both headlight relays? There is a high beam and a low beam. You could also jump them with the relay out to confirm you are working with a good relay.